There are lots of ways you can play a part in helping your partner during labour. First off, make sure you’re familiar with her birth plan, so that when she’s busy concentrating on pushing and breathing, you can ensure her wishes are being met. Other than that, keep food and drink to hand for when she needs them and try putting what you learnt at antenatal classes into action. You could also ask if your partner would like you to:
- Massage her feet and lower back
- Document the event with photos
- Help her change positions to stay comfortable
- Cut the umbilical chord
- Cool her down with a flannel or water spray
- Help her stay mobile by walking around with her
- Give her encouraging words (e.g. when you can see the baby’s head)
One of the most helpful things you can do is to remain calm for your partner – this will help her stay relaxed and calm too.